How to make a relationship work

How to make a relationship work
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Life's equations keep changing. Sometimes, unknowingly, owing to circumstances we often tend to ignore the issues that come in the way.

Before reaching a stage where there is no other alternative but to call it a quit, giving time to think what is or what has been going wrong can help one iron out the differences in a relationship. Particularly, in a man-woman relationship, there are many factors like lack of spending quality time, inability to listen to the partner, lead to misunderstandings which may give rise to fractures otherwise not warranted in a healthy relationships.

There are certain things, which may not look as very significant factors, but when paid attention to can act as buffers which will save one's relationship. Here is how:

1. Never look lost in things while your partner is saying something important. This may give rise to the feeling that you are least interested in listening to what he or she feels or that you don't think his/her opinion counts much in your life.

2. Ask for your partner's opinion when in doubt. But if you think the advice proves counterproductive to what your logic says, politely convey the same and explain without losing cool why you think your viewpoint will be the ideal solution for the problem.

3. Even if at the working hours, pay equal attention to the calls from your family. There must be some reason why someone very close to you wants to speak to you. If you think repeated calls come in the way of work, politely and affectionately explain why one should not do so without losing your cool.

4. Gifts, parties, hangouts, food joints are alright. But there is something more than just material pleasure. Get closer on an emotional level and see your relationship working wonders.

5. Work towards physical compatibility. One does not just enter a relationship for the sake of fun. So share your likes and dislikes on the bed and go ahead to make it a wonderful experience. 

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