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Thursday, 9 February 2017

Let's start talking again



We, as a society, really have no idea how *suffocated* people are in their emotions. Most people have *nobody* to express themselves entirely to. Everyone is holding back their *vulnerabilities* to maintain the *social image* of a confident and happy person.


Heart-to-heart conversations have become *rare, artificial and shallow*. And most hearts are filled with *empty defences*.


Most people can't even talk to their *life-partners openly* for the fear of being judged or rejected. Emotions await just a release. Social images make sure weakness is not glorified.


Children have *bottled up* stress. Young people suffer anxiety and depression.


It is just lack of social support. It is *lack of non-judgmental* friendships. It is result of *fast and busy lives* where nobody has time to just sit and watch someone cry.


It is result of *instant and impatient lifestyle* practices, that *emotions have started feeling like waste of time*.


We have *whatsapp and facetime and social media* - and we also have *stress and anxiety and depression*.


Our forefathers had neither. Because they talked to each other. Because talking helps.


The face-to-face type talking, the *just-listen-to-me* type talking, the *hold-my-hand-and-let-me-cry* type talking, the *sit-next-to-me-and-listen-to-my-silence* type talking... the talking where the person can be themselves and *say anything they feel without the fear of any judgement or loss or rejection*.


Today we dont like that type of talking. Those conversations when someone begins to undress one's mind. In fact we *avoid people*. And so, mental illness is epidemic. Naturally.


There is not much we can do. But we can offer a *listening* !


Let's let people talk without any fear. Let's create conversations.


*Let's start talking again*.